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THE TRUTH ABOUT LOVE:)
THE TRUTH ABOUT LOVE:)
Loving is always a learning process. With love, we learn how to care and sacrifice. We learn to share and reach out. We learn to be UNSELFISH AND GIVE MORE THAN WE RECEIVE. And when everything doesn't end well, we learn how it feels to fall, to strive back to get back on our feet and move on. This is where we learn that "LIFE D0ESN'T END WHERE OUR HEARTACHES BEGIN. THERE IS NO FUTURE IN A RELATIONSHIP OF LIES AND SELFISHNESS. IT'S TRUE, THERE IS LIFE IN LOVE." The success of a relationship lies not only in the beauty of its beginning but in its consistency. Make a choice not on impulse but a decision based on a healthy balance of mind and heart. Let us always remember that "HAPPINESS IS NOT A MATTER OF DESTINY, BUT A MATTER OF CHOICE." There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful, and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer, but in the end, our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.
"YOU DON'T HAVE TO FORGET SOMEONE YOU LOVE. WHAT YOU NEED TO LEARN IS TO ACCEPT THE REALITY WITHOUT BEING BITTER OR SORRY FOR YOURSELF. YOU ARE BETTER OFF GIVING THAT LOVE AND DEDICATION TO SOMEONE MORE DESERVING." Don't let your heart run your life. Be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow.
'IF YOU LOSE LOVE, THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU HAVE FAILED. CRY IF YOU HAVE TO, BUT MAKE SURE THAT THE TEARS WASH AWAY THE HURT AND THE BITTERNESS THAT THE PAST HAS LEFT YOU. LET GO OF YESTERDAY AND LOVE WILL FIND ITS WAY BACK TO YOU.'
And when it does, pray that it stays and lasts a lifetime. A woman on the rebound could easily fall for sweeping emotions and be made to falsely believe that she finally stumbled upon the right man, when what she just found is only someone to cover up for the love that she/He lost. A man/woman who makes promises with words and not with actions may never live up to fulfill them. It's true that love can wait forever, but it is crazy to stubbornly hope for someone who doesn't even care or understand how we feel.
Loving someone is never a sin. It is what people do out of love that sometimes makes it all wrong. The selfish desire to want that person is what makes it a sin. Don't think only of your feelings, for real love doesn't have a place for selfish people. When there is love, there is always sacrifice. When we love someone, we don't easily give up on that person. Even if we get hurt badly, we always try to find a way to ease the pain and learn to understand and forgive. Loving too much doesn't hurt. It is when we expect this love to be reciprocated that we begin to seek approval and acceptance for the things we have done. And when are taken for granted and rejected, we curse the very same love that we once freely and happily offered. DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME WAITING FOR SOMEONE WHO NEVER REALLY CARED ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL. OPEN YOUR HEART AGAIN, AND GIVE YOURSELF THE CHANCE TO FIND THE MAN WHO WOULD MAKE LOVE WORTH THE PAIN AND THE SACRIFICE.' Just like anything else, our love grows weak and extent. Beyond that, it withers without any hope of recovery and soon dies. Relationships built on jealousy and selfishness is doomed from the very beginning. The hardest part is of losing love is letting go and moving on. Most of us cry endlessly over things that could have been, but never will be. "God allows us to experience pain to make us stronger and better persons. He will see us through the most trying and difficult times in our lives. Only in our trust in Him can we learn to find joy in our tears and happiness in our sorrows." In many failed relationships, separation comes as an inevitable choice but moving on always proves to be twice as difficult as letting go. Sometimes, the end of a relationship is imposed on us, but our choice to hold on is always beyond circumstances. Letting go is a decision that can never be dictated on us. It is a resolve we make ourselves. "ACCEPTANCE IS THE KEY TO A NEW BEGINNING, AND TIME IS THE HEALER OF ALL WOUNDS." Even if the storm casts its fearful shadow, there will always be a light after darkness and lonely moments. There is always a hope for those who believe. There is always a chance for those who try.
'LOSING SOMEONE MAY NOT BE A LOSS AT ALL, BUT A BLESSING, BECAUSE SOMEONE EVEN BETTER IS YET TO COME.'
There is nothing wrong in expressing our feelings to someone we love, but we must always be sensitive to the signals that tell us when to rationalize and be sensible. There comes a time when we fall for someone who is not interested in us because his attention is focused on someone else. There are many times when we love but don't get loved in return. There are times when the sign ahead says STOP and we stubbornly head on. If we say love is unconditional, then we should not expect for anything. But why do we get frustrated when love turns sour? Because we still subconsciously seek acceptance and assurance from the people we care about.
"BEING IN LOVE CAN BE THE MOST WONDERFUL THING WE COULD EXPERIENCE, BUT IF IT BEGINS TO CONSUME OUR WHOLEBEING, THEN WE HAVE TO STOP AND LET OUR MIND AND NOT OUR HEARTS DICTATE OUR ACTIONS. ONLY WHEN WE LEART TO ACCEPT OUR FATE, AND UNDERSTAND THE MEANING OF OUR FAILURES, CAN WE TRULY GO ON WITH LIFE WITHOUT HAVING TO LOOK BACK AND CRY OVER THE THINGS THAT COULD HAVE BEEN BUT NEVER WILL BE.
18-06-13 15:52:42 | by Bloom
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Comments
melason That's right!
18-06-16 15:33:26
Jdev True love never dies, in true love hve mutual undrsdng & trust on each other tht day not come 4 break up,some fight is ok but true love never dies,it's 4ever
18-06-14 18:02:06
S2_batusai indeed  -great2- worth to read
18-06-13 16:07:26
Loveprshnt how big it is i will sleep twise to read thatπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜΄πŸ˜΄πŸ˜΄πŸ˜΄πŸ˜΄
18-06-13 16:04:08
Ash44 Love may give happiness or sadness depending upon our feelings So always delete sad events and make a large space for happiest movements.
18-06-13 16:02:44
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